Men think women are mysterious. Women think men are bastards. Or sluts. Man-sluts. Why are women so mysterious to men when the to women men are just...men? Well, since I am not a man myself I cannot completely and fully answer that question. Even though we think men to be such fools we are still attracted to them.
(This is probably all a generalisation by the way but there is some truth to it). What do women get attracted to? No. It's not your penises (well, maybe) .Well. It depends. Every guy is different but in general girls always like men that can make them laugh, men with humour. I previously read in a blog that "Humor is attractive because it is a demonstration of a good life, of control, and of social power and dominance over her and other people".
They are also attracted to kindness. Kind actions, kind words. Every girl likes being told she's pretty or beautiful or that she looks sexy. She might not admit it in the moment but inside she will be smiling profusely.
Men with good style. If they dress good, it's always a plus. Especially if you look hot in what you're wearing (I. LOVE. SKINNY. JEANS) . But you don't have to dress like a friggin' super model or anything. I'm just saying. +
Some girls are totally attracted to that bad guy personality. It is so hot. A man to push you up against the wall with passionate kisses and some bananas (?) is very sexy indeed.
There are more things that attract girls but if we analyze the few things I've mentioned we see that yes humour=sexy but if you're trying too hard to be funny and making a complete ass out of yourself then you're failing miserably. You don't have to be funny. Just be yourself.
Kindness is good but don't pretend to be someone you're not or again try too hard 'cause we will see right through you! And if you keep saying "Oh, baby, you're so damn fine. Oh, you so pretty. That skirt is just like BAM. Sexylicious" It will seem as if you're engaging in verbal harrassment.
As to style; sometimes guys just don't have a clue and try to hard and fail. Miserably. And don't push a girl up against the wall unless you know with 110% certainty that she wants it. Otherwise you will seem like you're gonna rape her.
So basically you're fucked! Well, no. But you see why girls think guys are bastards even though they might not be. 40-50% it's because they've been trying too hard. Just be yourself. Nobody likes a liar.
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